Tuesday, November 15, 2011
On Being Grateful
They say when you feel defeated or lost, you should count your blessings; that this is something we can do everyday, not just once a year on Thanksgiving. I have to admit, when I thank God for the abundance in my life I do automatically feel a strange sense of peace. I realize that even though I might be unemployed, and in a financial crisis, I am still so much better off than the majority of the people living on this planet.
Saturday, November 12, 2011
VISION BOARDS
I have to admit, I've never been a huge Oprah Show fan, but recently I was told about her "LifeClass" series on OWN, her new TV network. Since I don't have OWN, I decided to check out her lifeclasses on her website, www.oprah.com.
I am so impressed with how genuine and truly helpful she comes across in her web-casts. She has excellent guest speakers, and most of the class is interactive in some way. The topics range from "Dealing with Anger," to "Letting Go of the Past." There are workbook questions to go with each webcast which really force you to be introspective. One of my favorite parts, though, is the "Dream Board" section where you can put your vision of what you would like your life to be into a visual "bulletin board."
I am so impressed with how genuine and truly helpful she comes across in her web-casts. She has excellent guest speakers, and most of the class is interactive in some way. The topics range from "Dealing with Anger," to "Letting Go of the Past." There are workbook questions to go with each webcast which really force you to be introspective. One of my favorite parts, though, is the "Dream Board" section where you can put your vision of what you would like your life to be into a visual "bulletin board."
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| My "Vision Board" |
You Are What You Believe
"Change your thoughts and you change the world."
Norman Vincent Peale
Norman Vincent Peale
I have the power to design my own life.
"We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make our world."
~Buddha~
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make our world."
~Buddha~
New Beginnings
Has it really been five months?
Time changes things; time heals; time helps you forget.
We are in our new home. Our friends have family have made this the most special home for us by donating furniture and everything else we could possibly need to start over. We moved into the new place in the middle of August and are thoroughly settled.
I count my blessings every day for the generous people in my life. Thank you for all you have given us and all of your thoughts and prayers. We truly are living in abundance because of our friends and family who love us.
I love you all.
Time changes things; time heals; time helps you forget.
We are in our new home. Our friends have family have made this the most special home for us by donating furniture and everything else we could possibly need to start over. We moved into the new place in the middle of August and are thoroughly settled.
I count my blessings every day for the generous people in my life. Thank you for all you have given us and all of your thoughts and prayers. We truly are living in abundance because of our friends and family who love us.
I love you all.
Saturday, June 25, 2011
Time To Move On...(Literally)
It has been eight long months of......what?? I don't know what to call it. Eight months of living out of plastic garbage bags, sleeping on air mattresses, barring people from entering my "home." I cannot even call it my home anymore because I dread being here.
Getting a full night's sleep is a joke. The itching escalates at night and I wind up scratching myself until I bleed. At the present time, I have at least 75 bites on my body. I wake up with ten to fifteen new ones each morning. The boys no longer even sleep here, they're so fed up. I feel better knowing they can sleep bite-free at their dad's house.
This bed bug situation has really opened my eyes to some basic lessons of life:
1. Stuff doesn't matter
2. You can go crazy from scratching
3. Sometimes you need to let go
We will be moving out in a few weeks. Ninety percent of our "stuff" is either already gone or will be staying with the house. I cannot take the chance of bringing these homewreckers with me. We don't have a new place yet, but I refuse to put my family through any more turmoil.
Yes, I am grateful we are all healthy and safe....but this situation has slowly but surely tested all of our mental constitutions. I'm going to quit while I'm still relatively sane.
One of the most frustrating parts of this is that my landlord doesn't believe there are really bed bugs in this house. I have done everything I can to take care of this problem and have not asked him until now to help me out. Alas, I am leaving this "alllergic reaction" to him now. (He believes it is an allergy to something I have brought into the house. Yeah, it is. A reaction to BED BUGS!)
I can say with a clear conscience that this is no longer my problem. Time to move on and enjoy each day itch-free.
Getting a full night's sleep is a joke. The itching escalates at night and I wind up scratching myself until I bleed. At the present time, I have at least 75 bites on my body. I wake up with ten to fifteen new ones each morning. The boys no longer even sleep here, they're so fed up. I feel better knowing they can sleep bite-free at their dad's house.
This bed bug situation has really opened my eyes to some basic lessons of life:
1. Stuff doesn't matter
2. You can go crazy from scratching
3. Sometimes you need to let go
We will be moving out in a few weeks. Ninety percent of our "stuff" is either already gone or will be staying with the house. I cannot take the chance of bringing these homewreckers with me. We don't have a new place yet, but I refuse to put my family through any more turmoil.
Yes, I am grateful we are all healthy and safe....but this situation has slowly but surely tested all of our mental constitutions. I'm going to quit while I'm still relatively sane.
One of the most frustrating parts of this is that my landlord doesn't believe there are really bed bugs in this house. I have done everything I can to take care of this problem and have not asked him until now to help me out. Alas, I am leaving this "alllergic reaction" to him now. (He believes it is an allergy to something I have brought into the house. Yeah, it is. A reaction to BED BUGS!)
I can say with a clear conscience that this is no longer my problem. Time to move on and enjoy each day itch-free.
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Living in Hell
Hello all!
I cannot believe it has been FOUR months since my last posting. But when I think about what has been happening for the last four months, it makes sense. Let's just say that my faith in reusing and recycling has been severely tested this past quarter.
It seems that the sleeping bag that I purchased second-hand at a thrift shop for my week-long permaculture outdoor workshop was infested with bedbugs.
A couple of weeks after my trip, the kids and I began to suffer from small, red, itchy bumps on our torsos and arms. I cursed the day we rescued our cat and treated the house and him immediately for fleas. I felt horrible using the chemical treatment, but have had them before and knew I had to contain them before they overtook the house. A week later when the bites didn't disappear, but got worse, I knew something wasn't right. I had heard about bedbugs before but didn't believe I needed to worry about them. Besides, everything I had ever bought used I washed right away and hung outside to dry on the line. I was so confused. I read a little about them online and looked for pictures of them. So far, I hadn't seen any in our house, but I needed to know what to look for. Sure enough, after a few more days I found one dead on smashed on the strap of my bra which was hanging off of my door handle!! Immediately, I called the pest control company I have always used for ants in the past and explained the situation. They came out that afternoon.
It has been four months since that first treatment. That pest control company came SIX more times. Still, two of us continued to get bitten. I assumed the bugs must still be in my son's room and my room which was why we were still getting eaten alive. (It cost $400 dollars for the treatment which included a thirty day warranty.) I almost passed out when I heard the cost. Little did I know that they were extremely reasonable compared to all the other companies I would contact. After my bug guy had come a total of seven times with no luck, I finally looked up "Bed Bug Exterminators" online and called one named AAA Bedbugs. They were located in Chicago. Just the fact that they had the word "bed bugs" in their title made me feel better. They would have to know how to get rid of these little monsters. After finding out that they charged a $45 inspection fee plus over $150 per room but had a sixty day warranty, I made an appointment. The technician (that's what their called now, not "the bug guy") came out that day and sprayed the two bedrooms with "cryonite." It is basically freezing them upon contact.
Well......that same technician just left my house about an hour ago.
For the FOURTH time. He came back after doing the two bedrooms and sprayed the whole house. (at over $150 per room, remember) He has used the cryonite again, he has sprayed toxic pesticides. He even set off those awful "bombs" in the house. (This, I just recently found out is the WORST possible thing you could do, as it causes the bugs to delve deeper into their hiding spots to get away.) I have thrown out my mattress and box spring, my son's mattress and box spring and our vacuum cleaner. I have thrown away comforters and blankets, towels and clothing. Books, toys, stuffed animals, posters, rugs, shoes...you name it.
We have been living a nightmare for the past four months. We continue to get bitten. I currently have about thirty old and new bites on my belly, back, shoulders and upper arms. My oldest woke up with fifteen bites on his upper arm yesterday and poor B has at least fifty bites all over him. It seems that T, the youngest doesn't react to the bites. I have only found one on him the whole time. The bites itch like a mosquito bite and bleed quickly. The itching can last from one to three weeks. B has scars from the places he has scratched so much.
These mother*!#*!'s can hide anywhere. They particularly like linens and wood, but have been found in clock radios and picture frames before. Everything that is too big or cannot be laundered has been sealed in black garbage bags and placed in the garage.
I spent three hundred dollars today at Walmart on mattress encasements, a steam cleaner, bed bug pesticides, gloves, face masks, big rubbermaid storage containers, rubbing alcohol and MORE laundry detergent. I am going to vacuum, steam, spray and scrub the crap out of every surface in my house. I will throw out my couch if I have to, I'm so desperate.
The worst part is, I cannot even donate any of this stuff. It could have bed bugs and the last thing I want to do is pass this on to another family.
I consider myself fairly close to a bedbug expert by now and found out how they got in. I mentioned the sleeping bag earlier, and washing linens and clothing should kill bedbugs. However, it must be washed in EXTREMELY HOT water--at least 120 degrees. Also, you must PUT IT IN THE DRYER as well. The heat from the dryer also kills all stages of bedbugs. When I brought the sleeping bag home, I was trying to be environmentally friendly and economical. I used COLD water when I washed it and hung it outside to dry. Those little critters must have been laughing at me as they swayed to and fro in the breeze on the line in my backyard.
At night, I dream of washers and dryers, spinning non-stop. I have nightmares of bites I cannot reach, or fingers with no nails to speak of.
I have shown the kids how to use a long serving fork as a back/torso scratcher for those hard to reach places.
We live out of plastic bags. I do loads and loads of laundry every day. Our pillows have been washed fourteen times. They aren't even pillows anymore, more like lumps of fabric that used to be soft. The blankets and comforters have holes in them from getting snagged by the top of the washer. The boys are down to four pairs of pants and five shirts each because it is easier that way. When we go to someone's house we wear clean clothes and don't bring anything with us.
I hope you can forgive me for my blogging absence. I just haven't had the heart to tout the "reduce, reuse, recycle" mantra lately and I haven't had the time to, either. If I have learned anything so far, though, it is that one can live upon very little--that material possessions really don't mean that much....especially if they are infested with bedbugs.
I cannot believe it has been FOUR months since my last posting. But when I think about what has been happening for the last four months, it makes sense. Let's just say that my faith in reusing and recycling has been severely tested this past quarter.
It seems that the sleeping bag that I purchased second-hand at a thrift shop for my week-long permaculture outdoor workshop was infested with bedbugs.
A couple of weeks after my trip, the kids and I began to suffer from small, red, itchy bumps on our torsos and arms. I cursed the day we rescued our cat and treated the house and him immediately for fleas. I felt horrible using the chemical treatment, but have had them before and knew I had to contain them before they overtook the house. A week later when the bites didn't disappear, but got worse, I knew something wasn't right. I had heard about bedbugs before but didn't believe I needed to worry about them. Besides, everything I had ever bought used I washed right away and hung outside to dry on the line. I was so confused. I read a little about them online and looked for pictures of them. So far, I hadn't seen any in our house, but I needed to know what to look for. Sure enough, after a few more days I found one dead on smashed on the strap of my bra which was hanging off of my door handle!! Immediately, I called the pest control company I have always used for ants in the past and explained the situation. They came out that afternoon.
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| (Photo courtesy of bed-bugs-handbook.com) An adult bed bug, a bit bigger than a grain of rice |
Well......that same technician just left my house about an hour ago.
For the FOURTH time. He came back after doing the two bedrooms and sprayed the whole house. (at over $150 per room, remember) He has used the cryonite again, he has sprayed toxic pesticides. He even set off those awful "bombs" in the house. (This, I just recently found out is the WORST possible thing you could do, as it causes the bugs to delve deeper into their hiding spots to get away.) I have thrown out my mattress and box spring, my son's mattress and box spring and our vacuum cleaner. I have thrown away comforters and blankets, towels and clothing. Books, toys, stuffed animals, posters, rugs, shoes...you name it.
We have been living a nightmare for the past four months. We continue to get bitten. I currently have about thirty old and new bites on my belly, back, shoulders and upper arms. My oldest woke up with fifteen bites on his upper arm yesterday and poor B has at least fifty bites all over him. It seems that T, the youngest doesn't react to the bites. I have only found one on him the whole time. The bites itch like a mosquito bite and bleed quickly. The itching can last from one to three weeks. B has scars from the places he has scratched so much.
I spent three hundred dollars today at Walmart on mattress encasements, a steam cleaner, bed bug pesticides, gloves, face masks, big rubbermaid storage containers, rubbing alcohol and MORE laundry detergent. I am going to vacuum, steam, spray and scrub the crap out of every surface in my house. I will throw out my couch if I have to, I'm so desperate.
The worst part is, I cannot even donate any of this stuff. It could have bed bugs and the last thing I want to do is pass this on to another family.
I consider myself fairly close to a bedbug expert by now and found out how they got in. I mentioned the sleeping bag earlier, and washing linens and clothing should kill bedbugs. However, it must be washed in EXTREMELY HOT water--at least 120 degrees. Also, you must PUT IT IN THE DRYER as well. The heat from the dryer also kills all stages of bedbugs. When I brought the sleeping bag home, I was trying to be environmentally friendly and economical. I used COLD water when I washed it and hung it outside to dry. Those little critters must have been laughing at me as they swayed to and fro in the breeze on the line in my backyard.
At night, I dream of washers and dryers, spinning non-stop. I have nightmares of bites I cannot reach, or fingers with no nails to speak of.
I have shown the kids how to use a long serving fork as a back/torso scratcher for those hard to reach places.
We live out of plastic bags. I do loads and loads of laundry every day. Our pillows have been washed fourteen times. They aren't even pillows anymore, more like lumps of fabric that used to be soft. The blankets and comforters have holes in them from getting snagged by the top of the washer. The boys are down to four pairs of pants and five shirts each because it is easier that way. When we go to someone's house we wear clean clothes and don't bring anything with us.
I hope you can forgive me for my blogging absence. I just haven't had the heart to tout the "reduce, reuse, recycle" mantra lately and I haven't had the time to, either. If I have learned anything so far, though, it is that one can live upon very little--that material possessions really don't mean that much....especially if they are infested with bedbugs.
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Inspiration
I'd like to use this post to share some of the ideas and pictures from my recent permaculture course. I hope they will inspire you to learn more and practice some of the principles in your own yard or community.
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| Uncommon Ground is located in Rogers Park. This restaurant is SO cool. They have their own farmer! He takes care of the rooftop gardens, parking lot beds, rooftop beehives and excess veggie oil which is given away for biofuel. The restaurant makes it a point to use mostly locally sourced food and utilizes what they grow on their property as well. WATERS SCHOOL One of the places we visited as well was Waters School on the Northside. One amazing parent has transformed a broken-down, worn-out school yard into a beautiful area where both school children and members of the neighbohood work together and build community.   |
The beds below follow a sort of "keyhole" bed design allowing for greater edge and winding pathways.
THE NOWICKI'S
Our final destination was to Ron and Vicki Nowicki's house in Downer's Grove. They built their house in the seventies, with the intention of living as sustainably as possible, being sure to include passive solar design and growing as much food as possible on their own property-which meant, God forbid...no lawn!!! I have to say that their property is more beautiful than any meticulously maintained suburban lawn I have ever seen.
They have a wood burning stove which is what provides for most of their heating needs and are proud to have yearly energy bills which are less than some of us pay in one month. The neatest thing about their home, though, is that you would never know you were living mostly "off the grid." Their home is comfortable and modern, with conveniences we expect in most of our own houses. This special couple definitely has some secrets to share with the rest of us looking to tread a little more lightly these days. Thank you, Ron and Vicki!
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| Vicki uses a special umbrella to protect and create a beneficial microclimate for new plants. |
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| Herbs, vegetables, native prairie plants and fruit trees all work together to create beneficial relationships for wildlife, the plants and the people who use them. |
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| Part of permaculture is creating relationships that create balance. Whether it be with plants, animals or human relationships, the goal is to have all the separate pieces support each other repeatedly and in multiple ways, providing failsafe systems. |
Perma-what?
Many of you know I took an eight day workshop on “Permaculture” recently. I travelled to Stelle, IL and was immersed in it from 8:30am until 9:30pm each day. Lots of people have asked me what permaculture actually is and I've been trying to come up with a simple, short explanation. However, because permaculture is a blend of lots of different principles, I'm having a difficult time. Luckily, though, a friend and fellow student has posted an excellent definition on her blog and I'd like to share it with you so you get a better understanding of what I actually did for those eight days.
On her blog, http://www.adventurefarm.blogspot.com/, Deanna Lawlor writes this:
'“Permaculture” was coined by two Australians, Bill Mollison and one of his students, David Holmgren. Originally, the word was a contraction of “permanent agriculture” however, as the permaculture practice evolved so did the meaning of the word, which is now mostly understood to mean “permanent culture.”'
'Most of us practice parts of permaculture already...with the choices we make in our daily lives. For instance, if you are composting, growing some of your own food, buying food at the farmer's market, supporting local businesses, walking or biking to work, or foraging for food; you are involved in a piece of permaculture. When you consciously start to pull these pieces together and design your life around the principles of permaculture, you are practicing it.'
I would add that any efforts to reduce your dependence upon finite resources, volunteering or sharing with others and working on building community in your area are also parts of the permaculture model. Permaculture is about caring for earth, caring for people and sharing surplus with everyone. The part which intrigues me the most is the fact that we can take the principles anywhere on the planet and help communities overcome poverty and despair, simply by teaching them some basic proven methods of growing food and obtaining water. It is pretty amazing to see whole villages in third world countries go from barren deserts to lush, green food forests.
Deanna and I are teaming up and will be holding workshops in the Chicago and St. Louis areas starting in January 2011. I know I can count on friends and family to be my “guinea pigs” and let us know how the workshops are going!
My Yard:
We started “vermi-composting” when I returned from the course. We had always done regular composting in the backyard, but now we have added red wiggler worms to a plastic bin full of air holes with newspaper and kitchen scraps to get richer compost in the spring. (Hopefully) I am still trying to get the correct amount of water, newspaper and organic scraps balanced and I think I might need some more worms. Anyone got some laying around they'd like to share?
On her blog, http://www.adventurefarm.blogspot.com/, Deanna Lawlor writes this:
'“Permaculture” was coined by two Australians, Bill Mollison and one of his students, David Holmgren. Originally, the word was a contraction of “permanent agriculture” however, as the permaculture practice evolved so did the meaning of the word, which is now mostly understood to mean “permanent culture.”'
'Most of us practice parts of permaculture already...with the choices we make in our daily lives. For instance, if you are composting, growing some of your own food, buying food at the farmer's market, supporting local businesses, walking or biking to work, or foraging for food; you are involved in a piece of permaculture. When you consciously start to pull these pieces together and design your life around the principles of permaculture, you are practicing it.'
I would add that any efforts to reduce your dependence upon finite resources, volunteering or sharing with others and working on building community in your area are also parts of the permaculture model. Permaculture is about caring for earth, caring for people and sharing surplus with everyone. The part which intrigues me the most is the fact that we can take the principles anywhere on the planet and help communities overcome poverty and despair, simply by teaching them some basic proven methods of growing food and obtaining water. It is pretty amazing to see whole villages in third world countries go from barren deserts to lush, green food forests.
Deanna and I are teaming up and will be holding workshops in the Chicago and St. Louis areas starting in January 2011. I know I can count on friends and family to be my “guinea pigs” and let us know how the workshops are going!
My Yard:
The boys have been busy helping me “permaculturize” (my own term!!) our back yard since I returned from the course. We've hauled leaves from neighbors lawns, dumped woodchips from the tree trimming company doing work down the street and collected animal feces from a teacher friend of mine with a zoo in her classroom. All this organic matter is being piled up on an old cement slab in my back yard which used to be the floor of a shed. After piling up a few feet of organic matter and giving it time to decompose, I should have soil healthy enough to plant in. I am also building a raised bed next to it for a couple of fruit trees and other beneficial plants and shrubs.
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| The beginning of the raised bed |
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| It looks like an overwhelming mountain of my neighbors' yard waste, but all that organic matter will be healthy soil eventually! |
We “inherited” Lucy, our new lop-eared bunny from a neighbor. She's sweet and adorable and produces EXCELLENT fertilizer for my compost pile! I got the rabbit hutch used on craigslist. You just pull out the bottom drawer where all the feces drops and pour it onto the pile. I made sure to place her hotel—I mean hutch on the south side of the house where it will get lots of sun. There is also a microclimate, or pocket of warm air in that area most of the time.
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| Lucy's luxurious home |
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| LUCY |
We started “vermi-composting” when I returned from the course. We had always done regular composting in the backyard, but now we have added red wiggler worms to a plastic bin full of air holes with newspaper and kitchen scraps to get richer compost in the spring. (Hopefully) I am still trying to get the correct amount of water, newspaper and organic scraps balanced and I think I might need some more worms. Anyone got some laying around they'd like to share?
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| Meet our fifty new family members |
Some of my other ideas are to dig a small pond in the backyard to attract more beneficial wildlife and prevent water run-off. I'm also going to get another 55 gallon rainbarrel to harvest more water. In my future dreams, I'd love to have a graywater system from the kitchen, washing machine and bathtub. I've also tried very hard to talk the boys into a compost toilet.....but that is going to take some convincing!
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| This single rain barrel fills up in a couple of minutes during a good rain storm. If my village would let me, I'd get a 500 gallon one. http://www.midwestpermaculture.com/ http://www.permacultureproject.com/ |
Thursday, October 21, 2010
How Do You Make a Tissue Dance?
Put a little "boogie" in it. Hah!!!!!!!!
I only bring up this topic because I have had more boogers in the past week than in the past ten years. I'm not sure if my nose is supposed to produce this many boogers, because now that I've had the deviated septum fixed it is normal, or if the excess crusties are a side effect of the surgery and will eventually go away. I can tell you though, that there were some pretty amazing ones right after the procedure. Who knew snot could be so interesting?
The coolest thing about my nose now is that I can actually breathe through it! I used to get up four to five times a night. For so many years I just believed I had a bladder problem. Ever since the surgery I am sleeping eight to ten hours straight without ever waking up. It turns out I didn't really have to pee, I just couldn't breathe.
Another benefit I've noticed is that I no longer feel like I'm going to pass out during the pranayama breathing in yoga. You are supposed to breathe rhythmically through one nostril at a time, exhaling in a forceful pattern. Unfortunately, by the third round I was usuallly gasping for air through my mouth and eliciting stern gazes from the instructor. I can now proudly say I am an expert at pranayama. :)
I'm still waiting for the surge of energy I was hoping I would experience now that I'm getting so much oxygen to my brain. Even though I'm not feeling the need to run any long distance marathons, and I couldn't tell you what happens when I workout, (cause it's been awhile) I do feel more of a sense of alertness when I'm out on my walks. Maybe I'm just enjoying the fall weather and happy to be able to smell the pumpkin bread cooling on the stove.
I only bring up this topic because I have had more boogers in the past week than in the past ten years. I'm not sure if my nose is supposed to produce this many boogers, because now that I've had the deviated septum fixed it is normal, or if the excess crusties are a side effect of the surgery and will eventually go away. I can tell you though, that there were some pretty amazing ones right after the procedure. Who knew snot could be so interesting?
Another benefit I've noticed is that I no longer feel like I'm going to pass out during the pranayama breathing in yoga. You are supposed to breathe rhythmically through one nostril at a time, exhaling in a forceful pattern. Unfortunately, by the third round I was usuallly gasping for air through my mouth and eliciting stern gazes from the instructor. I can now proudly say I am an expert at pranayama. :)
I'm still waiting for the surge of energy I was hoping I would experience now that I'm getting so much oxygen to my brain. Even though I'm not feeling the need to run any long distance marathons, and I couldn't tell you what happens when I workout, (cause it's been awhile) I do feel more of a sense of alertness when I'm out on my walks. Maybe I'm just enjoying the fall weather and happy to be able to smell the pumpkin bread cooling on the stove.
Welcome Back........
Don't ask me why I'm welcoming you back when I've the one who's been gone. I just can't get the "Welcome Back Kotter" theme song out of my head.
I'm having major writer's block.
Thursday, October 7, 2010
What a bounty!
Above are my herbs: sweet basil, rosemary and lavender. I'm going to bring them in the house over the winter to try to keep them alive. First, I have to figure out if I want to "clean" them to get rid of pests, or just replant them altogether.
Belive it or not, I canned these veggies! I heard a woman on NPR explaining how to make "Tomolives" with green cherry tomatoes and decided to give it a try. http://www.mrswheelbarrowskitchen.com/ They smelled amazing. The recipe suggests using other veggies like jalapeno peppers so I pickled two jars of those. N loves jalapeno pickles, so hopefully these will live up to his expectations. Don't be surprised if you receive one of these jars as a holiday gift in December!
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| Because of the threat of frost tonight, I pulled out all my plants and here's what I found. |
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Please, please, please ripen......... The pumpkin is from our garden. It's tiny but cute. Of course, the bigger one grew through to the neighbor's side of the fence and I don't have the heart to ask if we can keep it!! The butternut squash is from my across the street neighbor who has the greenest thumb on the block. |
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Stay tuned...
Hey everybody. Sorry I've been slacking off on the entries. Had nose surgery and am only just feeling normal again. Can't wait to share about the kayaking trip I took with Kim. We are definitely outdoorswomen ready to take on anything after that experience! Check back soon for the latest news.........
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
USEFUL INFORMATION
Hi Everyone! I had my first meeting of the "Thoughtful Suburbanites" at my local library. It was a group I formed through yahoo's http://www.meetup.com/ It was nice to meet people with similar interests and values and I'm really looking forward to learning from other members. I'm including below a list of resources I made available to the members of the group, but I thought readers of my blog might also find it useful. The last table includes local thrift shops, so if you don't live in the suburbs of Chicago, you can ignore that! Otherwise, I hope you find some useful information on this list. If you have any other websites you think should be added, leave it in the comment section. Thanks!
GREEN RESOURCE LIST
WEBSITES FOR KIDS AND FAMILY
http://www.adventureecology.com/ An interactive game for kids
http://www.planetfriendly.com/ Certifies earth friendly products
http://www.stopglobalwarming.org/ Ideas for everyone
http://www.nrdc.org/ Natural Resources Defense Council-'Kids Make Waves” How kids can help
Www.noimpactproject.org/experiment Family project-how much smaller can you make your carbon footprint?
http://www.fooditude.tv/ Greenfood website for “tweens”
Www.nwf.org/wildlifewatch National Wildlife Federation-kids can log their wildlife sightings to help scientists
http://www.softclothing.net/ “Green” clothes for kids with sensitivity issues
http://www.climatecycle.org/ Fundraise to get solar panels installed in our children's schools
http://www.safekids.com/ Get a free basic internet filter to help you keep your kids safe online
http://www.k9webprotection.com/ See above
http://www.frugalfun.com/ Lots of great cheap and green ideas
http://www.frugalvillage.com/ More ideas for you and your family
THRIFTY WEBSITES
http://www.lastfm.com/ Free streaming music-you choose what you want to hear
http://www.pandora.com/ Free streaming music-you hear music similar to your favorites
http://www.swap.com/ Excellent website where you can trade books, music and games. They are working on expanding to other items as well
http://www.freecycle.org/ Join the one in your city and let others turn your junk into their treasure
http://www.wisebread.com/ An excellent website with hundreds of ideas on green and frugal living
http://www.gamestop.com/ Go to your local shop to buy/trade video games and game systems
http://www.cash4books.net/ Get paid for books
http://www.frugalfun.com/ Lots of cheap, green ideas for you and your family
http://www.frugalvillage.com/ More ideas for you and your family
http://www.npr.org/ Donate your old car and help support public radio
SUSTAINABLE FOOD WEBSITES
http://www.localharvest.org/ Find farmer's markets in your areas, also “pick your own” farms
http://www.landconnection.org/ Learn how to support local farmers
http://www.mrswheelbarrow.blogspot.com/ Learn to can and preserve produce-excellent recipes!
http://www.locavores.com/ Discover why eating locally is so important
http://www.chicagohomecomposting.org%20learn/ Learn to compost no matter what type of home you inhabit *Local
Www.p2pays.org/compost/ More excellent info on composting
GLOBALLY CONSCIOUS WEBSITES
http://www.causesforchange.org/ Help third world countries become more independent
http://www.shareyoursoles.org/ Donate shoes to those in need
http://www.toms.com/ Buy one pair of shoes and this company will donate a pair to a child living in poverty
http://www.workingbikes.org/ Donate your old bike and this organization will fix it and send to a person living in poverty in a third world country
http://www.tenthousandvillages.com/ This non-profit company sells “fair trade” crafts from artisans around the world.
http://www.worldofgood.com/ An ebay company which also sells fair trade items
http://www.etsy.com/ Buy handmade items from people in our area
AVOIDING TOXINS
http://www.safecosmetics.org/ Find out what toxins are in your cosmetics
http://www.ewg.org/ Environmental Working Group-what is in your shampoo, sunscreen, soap? Which are the safest products to use?
http://www.cosmeticsdatabase.com/ Another website to help you make healthy choices for your family
http://www.thegreenguide.com/ A good website to help locate green products for your home
http://www.greenguard.org/ Learn about air quality
GOING GREEN
http://www.earth911.org/ Find out how to live more sustainably-LOTS of ideas
http://www.treehugger.com/ Another excellent general resource
http://www.grist.org/ Online “magazine” about everything sustainable
http://www.consciouslivingtv.com/ Lots of short video clips to help you green your lifestyle
http://www.epa.gov/ Environmental Protection Association-governmental resource
http://www.thedailygreen.com/ More green articles
http://www.350.org/ Excellent website where you can get directly involved by signing petitions and organizing events in your area
http://www.yesmagazine.org/ Another excellent magazine with superb articles about Americans who are making a difference
http://www.mindfulmetropolis.com/ A Chicago based magazine which details the city and suburbs' efforts in the sustainable movement
http://www.swancc.org/ Solid Waste Agency of Northern Cook County-INVALUABLE resource if you live in the NW suburbs of Chicago.
TRANSPORTATION
http://www.chicagocriticalmass.org/ Plan to ride your bike to make a statement
http://www.activetrans.org/ Advocates for “carless” transportation
http://www.metra.org/ Rail transportation
GREEN RESOURCE LIST
WEBSITES FOR KIDS AND FAMILY
http://www.adventureecology.com/ An interactive game for kids
http://www.planetfriendly.com/ Certifies earth friendly products
http://www.stopglobalwarming.org/ Ideas for everyone
http://www.nrdc.org/ Natural Resources Defense Council-'Kids Make Waves” How kids can help
Www.noimpactproject.org/experiment Family project-how much smaller can you make your carbon footprint?
http://www.fooditude.tv/ Greenfood website for “tweens”
Www.nwf.org/wildlifewatch National Wildlife Federation-kids can log their wildlife sightings to help scientists
http://www.softclothing.net/ “Green” clothes for kids with sensitivity issues
http://www.climatecycle.org/ Fundraise to get solar panels installed in our children's schools
http://www.safekids.com/ Get a free basic internet filter to help you keep your kids safe online
http://www.k9webprotection.com/ See above
http://www.frugalfun.com/ Lots of great cheap and green ideas
http://www.frugalvillage.com/ More ideas for you and your family
THRIFTY WEBSITES
http://www.lastfm.com/ Free streaming music-you choose what you want to hear
http://www.pandora.com/ Free streaming music-you hear music similar to your favorites
http://www.swap.com/ Excellent website where you can trade books, music and games. They are working on expanding to other items as well
http://www.freecycle.org/ Join the one in your city and let others turn your junk into their treasure
http://www.wisebread.com/ An excellent website with hundreds of ideas on green and frugal living
http://www.gamestop.com/ Go to your local shop to buy/trade video games and game systems
http://www.cash4books.net/ Get paid for books
http://www.frugalfun.com/ Lots of cheap, green ideas for you and your family
http://www.frugalvillage.com/ More ideas for you and your family
http://www.npr.org/ Donate your old car and help support public radio
SUSTAINABLE FOOD WEBSITES
http://www.localharvest.org/ Find farmer's markets in your areas, also “pick your own” farms
http://www.landconnection.org/ Learn how to support local farmers
http://www.mrswheelbarrow.blogspot.com/ Learn to can and preserve produce-excellent recipes!
http://www.locavores.com/ Discover why eating locally is so important
http://www.chicagohomecomposting.org%20learn/ Learn to compost no matter what type of home you inhabit *Local
Www.p2pays.org/compost/ More excellent info on composting
GLOBALLY CONSCIOUS WEBSITES
http://www.causesforchange.org/ Help third world countries become more independent
http://www.shareyoursoles.org/ Donate shoes to those in need
http://www.toms.com/ Buy one pair of shoes and this company will donate a pair to a child living in poverty
http://www.workingbikes.org/ Donate your old bike and this organization will fix it and send to a person living in poverty in a third world country
http://www.tenthousandvillages.com/ This non-profit company sells “fair trade” crafts from artisans around the world.
http://www.worldofgood.com/ An ebay company which also sells fair trade items
http://www.etsy.com/ Buy handmade items from people in our area
AVOIDING TOXINS
http://www.safecosmetics.org/ Find out what toxins are in your cosmetics
http://www.ewg.org/ Environmental Working Group-what is in your shampoo, sunscreen, soap? Which are the safest products to use?
http://www.cosmeticsdatabase.com/ Another website to help you make healthy choices for your family
http://www.thegreenguide.com/ A good website to help locate green products for your home
http://www.greenguard.org/ Learn about air quality
GOING GREEN
http://www.earth911.org/ Find out how to live more sustainably-LOTS of ideas
http://www.treehugger.com/ Another excellent general resource
http://www.grist.org/ Online “magazine” about everything sustainable
http://www.consciouslivingtv.com/ Lots of short video clips to help you green your lifestyle
http://www.epa.gov/ Environmental Protection Association-governmental resource
http://www.thedailygreen.com/ More green articles
http://www.350.org/ Excellent website where you can get directly involved by signing petitions and organizing events in your area
http://www.yesmagazine.org/ Another excellent magazine with superb articles about Americans who are making a difference
http://www.mindfulmetropolis.com/ A Chicago based magazine which details the city and suburbs' efforts in the sustainable movement
http://www.swancc.org/ Solid Waste Agency of Northern Cook County-INVALUABLE resource if you live in the NW suburbs of Chicago.
TRANSPORTATION
http://www.chicagocriticalmass.org/ Plan to ride your bike to make a statement
http://www.activetrans.org/ Advocates for “carless” transportation
http://www.metra.org/ Rail transportation
#!&@!%!
I think I'm a decent mom. I make sure the boys brush their teeth at least once a day, provide four food groups at every meal, force them to shower when their stink permeates the entire house. Yet, our "swear jar" is ready to bust.
No, I do not have a "potty mouth" around my children. I have been known to drop a few choice phrases among good friends, but I'm not even close to being called "vulgar."
"Bah!!! Mom. You owe me fifty cents!" That's the fine for bad language in our household. The money is dropped into a transparent plastic jar and isn't emptied until it is full.
"I don't owe YOU, I owe the JAR. And that money's for the whole family, smartypants.When it's full, we all get to decide what to do with it." If it were fifty cents per child per offense, I'd be living in a cardboard box.
You see, I think I might have Turret's Syndrome. Except only when I'm asleep.
I have been awoken many times by the pounding on my bedroom door and pleading by my children, "Mom, stop swearing!! MOM! Please! You said the "f" word like ten times!!!" Last night, I felt someone's hand clamp over my mouth and then, "Shut up!!! Mom, you HAVE to stop!!!!!"
Nobody ever believes me. At least not until they sleep with me. I've always been one to slumber soundly and peacefully. But my dreams tend to be realistic, vivid and often times violent. I remember my dreams easily, even from when I was a child. I'm still shaken by the one I had when I was three or four where my parents and I were kidnapped by indigenous natives in the rainforest and locked in a suspended bamboo cage from the treetops. I awoke the next morning lying in the fetal position against my parent's bedroom door.
I am often fighting for my life or the safety of others when dreaming. I have snatched my son from a raging flood and fled from a 747 as it crash landed on the phone booth I had been previously been calling home. My crazy aunt has driven us off a bridge and my own father sent the car into a large body of rapidly moving water. Somehow, I always manage to unbuckle the car seats or shout life-saving directions and I emerge the hero. Unfortunately, I tend to vocalize while I'm dreaming and my "dreaming" personality tends to be more like Tony Soprano than I care to admit.
For example, I dash into a public restroom only to find no doors on the stalls, toilet paper rolls bare, and toilets FULL. When I finally discover a decent one, people become the problem. They might cut in line or take my last tissue, take out their digital camera or sit down for a rest! "You mother*******!! Give me my god**** tissue you a**hole!"
In last night's fiasco, all the guests at my son's birthday party kept eating their pizza in my pool. I repeatedly ask them nicely to get out and eat in the kitchen, but now my new pool is covered with a greasy, orange sheen and filled with gooey, yellow globs. "Get out you a**holes!! You're all a**holes! " (According to T., who audibly "witnessed" the entire scene.)
When I ask one of boys what I said, their eyes get wide and they grin embarrassingly, "Mom, I could get in a lot of trouble for saying that." Sometimes I'm yelling so loudly I actually wake myself up. Sure, I feel bad, but what can I do? It's not like I have any control over it. That's what I keep telling the kids. How can it count if I don't know I'm saying it? Which is why our swear jar isn't a fair representation of the cursing in our house.
I've thought of duct taping my mouth shut when I sleep. My white-noise maker is turned up almost all the way so the kids won't hear me. I should be in one of those "sleep studies." Maybe some scientist can figure out why I do this.Could it be the snacks I eat before bed?
While I brainstorm ways to get my mouth out of the gutter, the kids are counting the cash in the jar. Let's just say we are halfway to Disneyland.
No, I do not have a "potty mouth" around my children. I have been known to drop a few choice phrases among good friends, but I'm not even close to being called "vulgar."
"Bah!!! Mom. You owe me fifty cents!" That's the fine for bad language in our household. The money is dropped into a transparent plastic jar and isn't emptied until it is full.
"I don't owe YOU, I owe the JAR. And that money's for the whole family, smartypants.When it's full, we all get to decide what to do with it." If it were fifty cents per child per offense, I'd be living in a cardboard box.
You see, I think I might have Turret's Syndrome. Except only when I'm asleep.
I have been awoken many times by the pounding on my bedroom door and pleading by my children, "Mom, stop swearing!! MOM! Please! You said the "f" word like ten times!!!" Last night, I felt someone's hand clamp over my mouth and then, "Shut up!!! Mom, you HAVE to stop!!!!!"
Nobody ever believes me. At least not until they sleep with me. I've always been one to slumber soundly and peacefully. But my dreams tend to be realistic, vivid and often times violent. I remember my dreams easily, even from when I was a child. I'm still shaken by the one I had when I was three or four where my parents and I were kidnapped by indigenous natives in the rainforest and locked in a suspended bamboo cage from the treetops. I awoke the next morning lying in the fetal position against my parent's bedroom door.
I am often fighting for my life or the safety of others when dreaming. I have snatched my son from a raging flood and fled from a 747 as it crash landed on the phone booth I had been previously been calling home. My crazy aunt has driven us off a bridge and my own father sent the car into a large body of rapidly moving water. Somehow, I always manage to unbuckle the car seats or shout life-saving directions and I emerge the hero. Unfortunately, I tend to vocalize while I'm dreaming and my "dreaming" personality tends to be more like Tony Soprano than I care to admit.
For example, I dash into a public restroom only to find no doors on the stalls, toilet paper rolls bare, and toilets FULL. When I finally discover a decent one, people become the problem. They might cut in line or take my last tissue, take out their digital camera or sit down for a rest! "You mother*******!! Give me my god**** tissue you a**hole!"
In last night's fiasco, all the guests at my son's birthday party kept eating their pizza in my pool. I repeatedly ask them nicely to get out and eat in the kitchen, but now my new pool is covered with a greasy, orange sheen and filled with gooey, yellow globs. "Get out you a**holes!! You're all a**holes! " (According to T., who audibly "witnessed" the entire scene.)
When I ask one of boys what I said, their eyes get wide and they grin embarrassingly, "Mom, I could get in a lot of trouble for saying that." Sometimes I'm yelling so loudly I actually wake myself up. Sure, I feel bad, but what can I do? It's not like I have any control over it. That's what I keep telling the kids. How can it count if I don't know I'm saying it? Which is why our swear jar isn't a fair representation of the cursing in our house.
I've thought of duct taping my mouth shut when I sleep. My white-noise maker is turned up almost all the way so the kids won't hear me. I should be in one of those "sleep studies." Maybe some scientist can figure out why I do this.Could it be the snacks I eat before bed?
Thursday, September 16, 2010
We Are Outward Bound (Whether they like it or not)
"Go outside and play," I tell the boys when their eyes have become bloodshot and bulging after an obscene amount of time in front of the latest war video game. They moan and groan and promise to evacuate the house after they kill one more Nazi Zombie. "Nope, NOW." I demand. "Save it and get out of my house. I don't wanna see your stinkin' faces for at least three hours! Now get!" I snatch controllers and kick swiftly at little behinds all the while pushing them out the back door.
"But mahhhhhhhmmmm....., it's boring outside," B moans, " There's nothing to doooooooo....."
"Yeahhhhhh....," chimes in T., "Nothin'...."
"Okay then," I say, "Anyone who stays in the house has to clean the cat litter box." The backs of three heads vanish immediately and the screen door slams.
Nothing to do????? Nothing to do outside??????? Remember when we used to leave the house in the morning and not return until dinnertime? And coming home at dinnertime was a disappointment!! We hopped on our bikes and rode to the park or playground, maybe the empty lot at the end of the cul-de-sac. There were trees to be climbed and forts to be built, streams to be explored and stones to be skipped. The princess needed to be rescued and horse races to be won. Even when it rained, puddles became moats and mud turned into canons. Remember that?
It frightens me to find my children outside so little. When they are outside they are either being shuffled to a sport or a lesson and the sport is the only other time they are out for an extended period of time. They beg to be driven to school when in reality it is a leisurely walk from our home. "Can you drive me to Alex's?" is a common question overheard on the weekend.
What happened? Is it that we parents are too afraid to let our kids roam the neighborhood the way we used to? Is it really more unsafe now than when we were young? Or is it that there isn't really any place for them to go and play freely as we did. You can't climb that tree or build that fort if it's on someone else's property....wayyyyyy too much of a liability. Oh, and don't climb up that slide little boy, you could get hurt. No walking across the top of the monkey bars--God forbid! What if you fall!! Skateboarding? Bike riding? Not near the library or the village hall, or for that matter on the street....the village ordinance says you can't. Have we taken away all their opportunities for fun? Oh no, Suzie can't walk home from school by herself, you never know what could happen between here and school!!! Have we taken away opportunities to build their independence?
I love being outside. Always have. It worries me that my own kids will grow up without an appreciation for wilderness and mother nature. They might never know the soul restoring power that can be found in nature. I'm trying hard to involve them more in my favorite activities, but boy, I gotta tell you, it is NOT easy to introduce kids to things they already believe are "boring." That adjective is the kiss of death.
Luckily, T. is only nine years old. He is still young enough, I believe, to be influenced in a positive way toward the natural world and all things "outdoorsy." Out of the three boys, he has always been the most active one and it is only recently that he has emulated his older brothers' bad non-stop gaming habits. Knowing this, I decided to try an experiment with him first. I didn't tell him where we were going or what we were doing, but only conceded that he would need to wear flip flops and sunscreen and bring a water bottle. When we pulled up to the boathouse at our local forest preserve, his face brightened. We paid twelve dollars to rent a canoe for an hour. (I wasn't about to do the whole day--what if he hated it?) The lifejackets fit snugly and our launch was smooth. We were off to a fantastic start. It was a Sunday morning and there had been lots of cars in the parking lot, but the lake was calm and peaceful with hardly any other canoes on it. I was the "rudder" and steered us in the correct direction, while I let T. just get used to using the paddle and learning the technique. He quickly learned how to switch from the right side to the left side, splashing just enough water backwards to make me yelp. You can imagine my relief when he began to point out the different birds and asked what they were called. Mostly though, we were just quiet. Listening for unfamiliar sounds and sights, enjoying the slow lifting and lowering of the water surrounding us. The wind began to pick up and we had to struggle to get back to the boathouse within our time limit. At one point it took both of us paddling like crazy on the right side simply to keep ourselves from becoming a pinwheel in the middle of Busse Lake! Back in the car on the way home, T grinned and said, "Mom, next time can we bring B. and N.?" I told him if he went home and made a REALLY big deal about it and let his brothers know how much fun he'd had, then maybe they could be persuaded to come along.
Since then, I have planned a half-day kayaking trip with my sister in southern Wisconsin and am looking forward to bringing the boys to Starved Rock for a day or two. T. helped me set up our new tent so I could waterproof it. He also helped me take it down two hours later when it began to RAIN. (Waterproofing doesn't work when it's wet!!!) Needless to say, the second time I tried, I was on my own. Of course, after it was all staked into the ground, the boys brought their novels, their homework, the cat and their aunt's dog into the tent with them and "camped out" in our backyard. This was merely practice, they assured me. Unfortunately, the next day was one of fifty-mile per hour winds and the tent was levitated and catipulted over our clothesline. Figures. (Obviously, no one was in it!!)
Even though I'd love for my kids to be more adventurous outdoors and more active in our neighborhood, I have to admit that I am one of those parents who worry about what can happen between home and the friend's house. While I'm encouraging them to ride their bikes more and walk to Gramma's when they need to visit her, I'm still guilty of the occasional drive to school. What can I say? Times have changed.
If you'd like to find a place near you to canoe or kayak, visit:
"But mahhhhhhhmmmm....., it's boring outside," B moans, " There's nothing to doooooooo....."
"Yeahhhhhh....," chimes in T., "Nothin'...."
"Okay then," I say, "Anyone who stays in the house has to clean the cat litter box." The backs of three heads vanish immediately and the screen door slams.
Nothing to do????? Nothing to do outside??????? Remember when we used to leave the house in the morning and not return until dinnertime? And coming home at dinnertime was a disappointment!! We hopped on our bikes and rode to the park or playground, maybe the empty lot at the end of the cul-de-sac. There were trees to be climbed and forts to be built, streams to be explored and stones to be skipped. The princess needed to be rescued and horse races to be won. Even when it rained, puddles became moats and mud turned into canons. Remember that?
It frightens me to find my children outside so little. When they are outside they are either being shuffled to a sport or a lesson and the sport is the only other time they are out for an extended period of time. They beg to be driven to school when in reality it is a leisurely walk from our home. "Can you drive me to Alex's?" is a common question overheard on the weekend.
What happened? Is it that we parents are too afraid to let our kids roam the neighborhood the way we used to? Is it really more unsafe now than when we were young? Or is it that there isn't really any place for them to go and play freely as we did. You can't climb that tree or build that fort if it's on someone else's property....wayyyyyy too much of a liability. Oh, and don't climb up that slide little boy, you could get hurt. No walking across the top of the monkey bars--God forbid! What if you fall!! Skateboarding? Bike riding? Not near the library or the village hall, or for that matter on the street....the village ordinance says you can't. Have we taken away all their opportunities for fun? Oh no, Suzie can't walk home from school by herself, you never know what could happen between here and school!!! Have we taken away opportunities to build their independence?
I love being outside. Always have. It worries me that my own kids will grow up without an appreciation for wilderness and mother nature. They might never know the soul restoring power that can be found in nature. I'm trying hard to involve them more in my favorite activities, but boy, I gotta tell you, it is NOT easy to introduce kids to things they already believe are "boring." That adjective is the kiss of death.
Since then, I have planned a half-day kayaking trip with my sister in southern Wisconsin and am looking forward to bringing the boys to Starved Rock for a day or two. T. helped me set up our new tent so I could waterproof it. He also helped me take it down two hours later when it began to RAIN. (Waterproofing doesn't work when it's wet!!!) Needless to say, the second time I tried, I was on my own. Of course, after it was all staked into the ground, the boys brought their novels, their homework, the cat and their aunt's dog into the tent with them and "camped out" in our backyard. This was merely practice, they assured me. Unfortunately, the next day was one of fifty-mile per hour winds and the tent was levitated and catipulted over our clothesline. Figures. (Obviously, no one was in it!!)
Even though I'd love for my kids to be more adventurous outdoors and more active in our neighborhood, I have to admit that I am one of those parents who worry about what can happen between home and the friend's house. While I'm encouraging them to ride their bikes more and walk to Gramma's when they need to visit her, I'm still guilty of the occasional drive to school. What can I say? Times have changed.
If you'd like to find a place near you to canoe or kayak, visit:
99 Shopping Days Till Christmas
Believe it or not, I'm already thinking about the holidays. I'm not usually one to plan this far ahead....far from it. I happen to wait until the week before Christmas or even the week AFTER Christmas to do my shopping for extended family members. (Okay, my secret is out. Sorry Mom, Dad and K., K., and C. I wait until everything is discounted before I buy your presents. But you always knew I was cheap. Why do you think I like to come visit after Christmas Day?)
This year is different, though, because I found my new favorite place to shop. It's called Gifts from Around the World and it's a Non-Profit organization in Schaumburg on Roselle Road. It sells handmade crafts from poor countries and all of the proceeds from the sale of the items go directly to the artisans. You've probably heard about goods being sold this way. The politically correct term is “Fair Trade.” If you shop at Whole Foods or Trader Joes you have most likely purchased some fair trade chocolate or coffee. It can mean that the goods were made by people who were paid a living wage, worked in safe conditions with reasonable hours and other fair practices.
I feel much better knowing that with my purchase, I am supporting someone who might otherwise be living in extreme poverty. I choose to do that instead of funding some huge conglomerate which deals with unregulated, sketchy overseas companies. Supporting child and slave-labor is not my intention when I buy my sister's housewarming gift. So, Mom and Dad, sisters and brother—expect some unique, beautifully handcrafted presents this year under the tree. Gorgeous silk scarves from India, handwoven bamboo serving trays from Vietnam, intricately carved wooden serving bowls from Malaysia, sterling silver earrings from Guatemala and singing bowls from Tibet are only some of the items available at my new favorite shop.
If you would like to join me for a “Fair Trade Party” in the beginning of November, let me know! I am hosting one at the “Gifts from Around the World” shop. We will sip fair trade wine and nibble on organic appetizers while we peruse the stunning handmade crafts available and put a large dent in our holiday shopping lists. Think “Tupperware” or “Tastefully Simple” parties with a twist. Unlike the aforementioned parties, none of the proceeds go to the host of the party or the store itself. Both the store clerk and the hostess are volunteers. You don't “have” to buy something so your friend who is holding the party gets a twenty-percent discount or special “hostess” gifts. There is absolutely no pressure. If you find something you like, rest assured that you are giving someone a chance to improve their life and provide for their family.
If you cannot make the party, but are still interested in supporting this type of cause, check out the websites below:
This year is different, though, because I found my new favorite place to shop. It's called Gifts from Around the World and it's a Non-Profit organization in Schaumburg on Roselle Road. It sells handmade crafts from poor countries and all of the proceeds from the sale of the items go directly to the artisans. You've probably heard about goods being sold this way. The politically correct term is “Fair Trade.” If you shop at Whole Foods or Trader Joes you have most likely purchased some fair trade chocolate or coffee. It can mean that the goods were made by people who were paid a living wage, worked in safe conditions with reasonable hours and other fair practices.
I feel much better knowing that with my purchase, I am supporting someone who might otherwise be living in extreme poverty. I choose to do that instead of funding some huge conglomerate which deals with unregulated, sketchy overseas companies. Supporting child and slave-labor is not my intention when I buy my sister's housewarming gift. So, Mom and Dad, sisters and brother—expect some unique, beautifully handcrafted presents this year under the tree. Gorgeous silk scarves from India, handwoven bamboo serving trays from Vietnam, intricately carved wooden serving bowls from Malaysia, sterling silver earrings from Guatemala and singing bowls from Tibet are only some of the items available at my new favorite shop.
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| Earrings from Nepal Ten Thousand Villages |
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| Salad Bowl from Bangladesh Ten Thousand Villages |
If you would like to join me for a “Fair Trade Party” in the beginning of November, let me know! I am hosting one at the “Gifts from Around the World” shop. We will sip fair trade wine and nibble on organic appetizers while we peruse the stunning handmade crafts available and put a large dent in our holiday shopping lists. Think “Tupperware” or “Tastefully Simple” parties with a twist. Unlike the aforementioned parties, none of the proceeds go to the host of the party or the store itself. Both the store clerk and the hostess are volunteers. You don't “have” to buy something so your friend who is holding the party gets a twenty-percent discount or special “hostess” gifts. There is absolutely no pressure. If you find something you like, rest assured that you are giving someone a chance to improve their life and provide for their family.
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| Kashmiri Wool Scarf India |
If you cannot make the party, but are still interested in supporting this type of cause, check out the websites below:
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Explain this...
I am utterly perplexed and curious about those random gym shoes that I spy every now and then on the side of the road. Haven't you ever noticed that before? You're driving home from wherever and there, on the side of the road...or right smack in the middle of it, is a lone sneaker. This wouldn't bother me so much if it didn't happen so often. In my 39 years, I'm sure I have seen at least a couple dozen single shoes, lying helplessly in the street.
It causes me to wonder, How in the hell did it get there? There are quite a few scenarios which I can imagine that could end with a shoe being discarded or dropped on the road, but none of them seem very feasible.
The first is a group of teenagers playing “Keep Away” with someone's stinky sneaker. I see small limbs reaching desperately to grab the shoe as it sails from the front to the third row seat of the driver's daddy's gas guzzling Denali. “Gimme it........!” he whines pawing the air helplessly as it flies straight out the window. “Ooops. Sorry,” giggle the older and much “cooler” kids.
Scenario number two: While traveling to the local “Goodwill” drop-off location, with garbage bags filled to the limit containing outgrown clothing and barely used footwear in the bed of your pickup truck, you hit the mother of all potholes, sending one precariously balanced Nike bouncing over the passenger side edge and onto the gravel-laden road. (quite a bit less likely than the first scene.)
If I am truthful, though, scenario number three describes what I feel when I see a lone gym shoe stranded on the side of the street--a deep unsettled sense of foreboding. My gut whispers to me that something is not right while horror film theme music plays in the back of my mind. In this third story line, I imagine a dead body rolled up in plaid flannel sheets and plastic tarp being dragged across a dark road, two large feet protruding from the end of the roll. A sneaker is unintentionally dislodged as the body is pulled into and out of that huge pothole and left untied and muddy, footless and unmatched. It lies fixed and lifeless, the only clue to the latest in a series of unsolved mysteries in our suburbs..... (I have to stop! I'm scaring myself)
Probably the most disturbing part of all this missing footwear is the fact that the majority of the ones I have seen are adult-sized! I find it much easier to believe that kids could lose a shoe on the side of the road. That's what children do, they misplace things. Maybe a young tike was being dragged across the street by an elder brother and happened to accidently “run” out of her untied Skecher. With that in mind, finding a tiny pink patent-leather “mary jane” is not as hard to wrap my brain around as is a brown leather, size eleven men's loafer.
What I would give to trace the history of that lone shoe! To follow it backwards from the yellow median line to the sweaty, athlete footed appendage which once called it home. To solve the mystery and know the trials and tribulations it has endured to find itself in a predicament such as this one.
But alas, that is not possible. I must be content with my own version of the events and allow my imagination to determine the reasons behind this perplexing puzzle.
NOTE TO READERS: If you are lucky enough to be privy to the real story behind one of these shoe mysteries, please please please share it with me in the comment section below! I'm not sure how long I can go on without knowing a legitimate answer. I will be forced to imagine ever-worsening scenarios until I do!
Check out the following links to donate shoes to needy children around the world:
The first is a group of teenagers playing “Keep Away” with someone's stinky sneaker. I see small limbs reaching desperately to grab the shoe as it sails from the front to the third row seat of the driver's daddy's gas guzzling Denali. “Gimme it........!” he whines pawing the air helplessly as it flies straight out the window. “Ooops. Sorry,” giggle the older and much “cooler” kids.
Scenario number two: While traveling to the local “Goodwill” drop-off location, with garbage bags filled to the limit containing outgrown clothing and barely used footwear in the bed of your pickup truck, you hit the mother of all potholes, sending one precariously balanced Nike bouncing over the passenger side edge and onto the gravel-laden road. (quite a bit less likely than the first scene.)
If I am truthful, though, scenario number three describes what I feel when I see a lone gym shoe stranded on the side of the street--a deep unsettled sense of foreboding. My gut whispers to me that something is not right while horror film theme music plays in the back of my mind. In this third story line, I imagine a dead body rolled up in plaid flannel sheets and plastic tarp being dragged across a dark road, two large feet protruding from the end of the roll. A sneaker is unintentionally dislodged as the body is pulled into and out of that huge pothole and left untied and muddy, footless and unmatched. It lies fixed and lifeless, the only clue to the latest in a series of unsolved mysteries in our suburbs..... (I have to stop! I'm scaring myself)
Probably the most disturbing part of all this missing footwear is the fact that the majority of the ones I have seen are adult-sized! I find it much easier to believe that kids could lose a shoe on the side of the road. That's what children do, they misplace things. Maybe a young tike was being dragged across the street by an elder brother and happened to accidently “run” out of her untied Skecher. With that in mind, finding a tiny pink patent-leather “mary jane” is not as hard to wrap my brain around as is a brown leather, size eleven men's loafer.
What I would give to trace the history of that lone shoe! To follow it backwards from the yellow median line to the sweaty, athlete footed appendage which once called it home. To solve the mystery and know the trials and tribulations it has endured to find itself in a predicament such as this one.
But alas, that is not possible. I must be content with my own version of the events and allow my imagination to determine the reasons behind this perplexing puzzle.
NOTE TO READERS: If you are lucky enough to be privy to the real story behind one of these shoe mysteries, please please please share it with me in the comment section below! I'm not sure how long I can go on without knowing a legitimate answer. I will be forced to imagine ever-worsening scenarios until I do!
Check out the following links to donate shoes to needy children around the world:
Monday, September 6, 2010
Bear With Me!
Having extra time on my hands because I am recently unemployed has been both a blessing and a curse. Blessing: I have the time to finally carry out principles that are important to me.
Curse: I also have the time to TELL everyone about the ideals that are important to me. (My poor friends and family!)
Since I've been dedicating so much of my time to living more sustainably, I thought I might share some of the ways I have been able to do this. My hope is that I don't sound "preachy." I am really hoping to be a resource for those of you who would also like to join the "crusade." Almost all of the ideas came from my sixth grade class last year. Those eleven and twelve year-olds were just as concerned about our planet as I was and they were determined to make a difference in their households. I am still amazed at all of the options they brainstormed to lighten a family's carbon footprint. Take a look at the list below and choose a couple of simple ones to try with your family. Let me know what works for you or share some ideas of your own!
Here's the Room 208 list of
"TopTwenty-Five Things You Can Do to Green Your Lifestyle:"
Curse: I also have the time to TELL everyone about the ideals that are important to me. (My poor friends and family!)
Since I've been dedicating so much of my time to living more sustainably, I thought I might share some of the ways I have been able to do this. My hope is that I don't sound "preachy." I am really hoping to be a resource for those of you who would also like to join the "crusade." Almost all of the ideas came from my sixth grade class last year. Those eleven and twelve year-olds were just as concerned about our planet as I was and they were determined to make a difference in their households. I am still amazed at all of the options they brainstormed to lighten a family's carbon footprint. Take a look at the list below and choose a couple of simple ones to try with your family. Let me know what works for you or share some ideas of your own!
Here's the Room 208 list of
"TopTwenty-Five Things You Can Do to Green Your Lifestyle:"
- Change your incandescent lightbulbs to CFL's (compact flourescent) You will save lots of money and energy. Make sure you dispose of them properly, they cannot be thrown in the regular garbage.Go to http://www.energystar.gov/ to get directions for disposal.
- Recycle everything you can!! This seems like a no-brainer for people who live near me because our waste management company takes plastic, paper, glass and aluminum and we don't even have to sort it. We are lucky. To find a recycling center near you and read guidelines about what can be recycled go to http://www.earth911.com/
- Reuse as much as possible. Use a real lunch box and tupperware containers to pack your lunch. Avoid paper plates. Consider whether you REALLY need that new ___________ (whatever it is!) Can you reuse the one you already have? Go to http://www.wastefreelunches.org/ to find out more information.
- Donate, don't throw away! Our landfills are quickly overflowing. If you can't reuse it, maybe someone else can. Donate old clothes, household items and sporting equipment to local charities. Nowadays you can find large metal containers strategically placed in parking lots of grocery stores and churches specifically for this purpose. You can also call The Salvation Army and Purple Heart. Go to http://www.charityguide.org/ to find local donation sites.
- Buy USED! Many people already do this when they move into a house or buy a used car. It's okay to do the same with clothes, shoes and other items. Just check to be sure they are clean and functional and be grateful for the bargain you are receiving. Go to http://www.thethriftshopper.com/ to find local second-hand shops near you. For more specifice purchases, try "Craigslist." I have had lots of luck with it. We have purchased a bike, a breadmaker and plants through http://www.craigslist.com/. Just make sure you meet at a public place and don't give out any personal information.
- Grow something. Whether you start a garden, some patio sized tomato plants or a grow herbs on your kitchen windowsill; knowing that your food is fresh and free of pesticides and other toxic chemicals is the best feeling in the world.
- Go on a family "Staycation" Think of how much fuel and money you will save if you drive to the water park in the next state, or camp in the national park. For that matter, you could camp in your own backyard! For more ideas visit http://www.familyeducation.com/ and type "staycation ideas" into the search box.
- Consolidate your errands Make a list of all the places you need to go over the next few days. Now, try to go to as many of them as you can in one trip, choosing the places which are closest together first. You will save time and gasoline.
- Carpool Is there somebody in your neighborhood who works near you and can split the driving each week? Maybe you and another mom can switch off carpooling to dance classes and little league. Moms have been doing this way before it was "green."
- Use Public Transportation I live near Chicago and I love going into the city but the hassle of traffic and nonexistent parking spots puts a damper on my excursions. Lucky for me there are two train routes that will drop me off right in the middle of the city. My kids would much rather take the train anyway, they think it's a lot "cooler" than driving. For Illinois, go to http://www.metrarail.com/ To find more information about the types of public transport available near you, try http://www.publictransportation.org/
- Bike/Walk/Skate This idea was by far the sixth-graders most popular. They were eager to bike and walk to school or a friend's house or football practice. This was one they felt they could do without needing parents to help out. There is a website called http://www.mapmyride.com/ It will take your starting and final destinations and map out the safest route for you via bicycle. Very cool!
- Insulate your house Believe it or not, this really does make a huge difference. Even if you can't afford to have more insulation put in your attic or walls, at least caulk your windows and doors. Use those little dorky snake-like stuffed animal things to block cold air from leaking in under your outer doors and put plastic sealer over your windows on the inside. Go to http://www.makeyourhomeenergyefficient.com/
- Close the blinds Okay....during the summer when the sun shines in and sets your front room ablaze, shut the curtains! This is fairly common sense and it really does help keep the room cooler. You will save on cooling costs.
- Open the blinds Obviously, you should OPEN the curtains in the winter, when it is cold so you can ALLOW the sun to heat up the room. You will save on heating costs.
- Use Fans Don't need to say much here. You can set the A/C temp. higher and use fans to help save money.
- Bundle Up! Duh. Lower your thermostat in the winter and wear layers. At night, lower it even more and invest in some good quality comforters and wool socks!!
- Eat Less Meat It takes lots of energy and land to raise livestock and you don't even want to know what they add to your meat. Try to cut back to eating meat only a few nights per week and you'll save on groceries while helping the environment. Check out http://www.foodincmovie.com/
- Buy Local Did you know that most of our food has traveled at least 1200 miles before it gets to our plates? Take advantage of Farmer's Markets in the summer. Go to "U-Pick" farms and pick your own fruits and vegetables. Again, it's about knowing where your food comes from. It's also about supporting your local communities. http://www.pickyourown.org/ and http://www.localharvest.org/
- Take Shorter Showers My students had fun setting a timer and trying to beat their fastest showering time each morning. We talked a lot about where their water comes from and how many people in poor countries must walk for hours to get water, let alone clean water. This was surprising for them. To find out more about how you can help provide water to third world countries see http://www.waterforpeople.org/
- Use a Compost Bin One of my students' fathers came in and demonstrated how to start a worm compost bin. (vermicomposting) Most of the class wanted to try this at home. If you aren't into worms, you can still make a compost bin or pile in your backyard using landscaping waste and kitchen scraps. Find out how at http://www.howtocompost.org/
- Hang up your Clothes to Dry Obviously this saves the energy your dryer would normally be using. You have to use a bit of trial and error, however. Certain things get "crusty" when hung up to line dry outside. However, I have found that throwing those items in the dryer for just five minutes and then hanging them out solves that problem. By the way, you can still do this in the winter....just use drying racks!
- Get a Rain Barrel I love my rain barrel. It was extremely easy to hook up and simple to use. I always have enough water for my garden and don't have to lug the hose around from the front of the house. Saving money on my water bill was a good incentive also. Many communities offer special prices on rain barrels. Check with your local public works department. Some examples: http://www.simplyrainbarrels.com/
- Visit Nature Stressed? Worried about work or your kids? Take some time to just sit quietly in a natural setting. Go to a Forest Preserve or Nature Sanctuary. Watch the birds and listen to the crickets. Feel your heart rate slow down and your outlook change. Don't let yourself forget WHY we are making all of these sustainable changes in our lives. http://www.stateparks.com/
- Unplug!!!! Many people don't realize that even when that TV or that Laptop is turned off, it is still draining electricity from the outlet. Unplug what you don't use often (toaster, coffeemaker) and use a power strip for electronics frequently utilized. When you are done with the computer, just turn the power off on the power strip and don't worry about unplugging anything. It WILL save you money. http://www.nrdc.org/
- Spread the Word Let others know what you are doing to live more gently on this earth. Have your kids talk about it at school, show your neighbors how to hook up their rain barrel, forward this blog on to your friends. Be vocal. If you really want things to change, write to the people in charge: the mayor, the governor, your representatives, senators, even Obama. Make your voice be heard. www.usa.gov/contact
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